#Bullying on the job how to
#Bullying on the job series

I can't tell you the sadness on that screamer's face when he heard the news and realized he never got to share his real feelings with this one. 'I remember a workplace where a colleague screamed at a subordinate one day the subordinate handled it just fine but on the way home from work a car ran a red light and this subordinate was killed. (don't make assumptions they know the right way to act assume they don't and teach with a gentle spirit) Make it light, use words that sound like 'I'm saying this so you don't get in trouble.' If they rant in your face tell a story to drive the point of why it's bad to do. However, if your brother or sister is doing a wrong to you, go to brother or sister in private and tell him or her nicely and give reason. NEVER NEVER criticize the work habits of those we work with to the boss even if it is causing you not to be able to do your job. Verbal means nothing and good management knows this.ħ. If every important procedure is done verbally do not take the job. (don't assume they should tell you how it is to be done if assisting the administration) If just a worker doing a task confirm at interview how directions are given verbally or by memo. Head 'em off at the pass or really: make them look good. Draw upon past experience (and hurts) and use beat their deficiencies to the punch. They won't always tell you how they want it or have such procedures in place. (signed by the head of department) The head of department hiring you hired so you make her or him look competent. Make sure everyone 'in the chain of command' is aware of what is happening in your department and why. Get important procedure in a memo or if the clerical assist type the memo up. Do it with a soft voice and never criticize - always be helpful not dominant.ĥ. It sets up accountability - BUT don't say it as such just give an observation and let them have the idea to do it) We should keep our lips tight on some matters but show we know where it matters. (this also prevents you (boss) from being blamed if something is not there. If the document still was out we knew where to start the search.

#Bullying on the job series

List was in columns: document, date of document and then a series of blank columns heading across top file removed the procedure was any who took from file had to initial and put date. documents of importance were listed and put on the inside cover of a folder. ie: oh you wish me to keep the personnel files in order according to date (recent to earliest) I certainly will but I recall when working in. Always ask appropriate questions, take initiative and speak of experiences without suggesting better ways. How we respond to this training time is very important.

The boss will start out explaining the job itself in a normal way. (nothing to show you have a great life) Human nature is prone to jealousy.Ĥ. (COMMON SENSE don't follow the world who does this) Don't put your family photos on desk either the vacation in Hawaii, or the spouse who looks so great physically. Don't antagonize others of different belief.

And don't play religious tunes in an office or hum Kum ba ya or make an altar of your desk with holy pictures. This isn't denying your ideology it's keeping your private life and thoughts private. No bumper stickers that read: I love Jesus or I'm pro-life, of the family that prays together stays together. Be 'mystery' / do not have social hot topic bumper stickers on car that define your good ideology. * more on this if you are in a threesome dept.ģ. As in Jesus' day (the good book teaches us much on human nature) his persecutors never verbally attacked if there was a crowd of others. It is also helpful at interview to gauge how many in a department.

(but don't speak it as such, they don't see their ways) Just state the benefit to the department if those entering department are greeted warmly and I can announce them to whomever they are there to see which is part of my job)Ģ. Put me in the corner like a 'wittle' child. (I thought nothing of it at first, until the 'other pieces of the department ways started coming together.' They wanted me, from the beginning to be submissive. My most recent job set my desk up so I had my face to the corner.

#Bullying on the job how to

7 Tips For New Job And (Maybe) Avoid Being BulliedĪ few tips I discovered through trial and error as to how to handle being new in a new work environment.ġ.